Published on June 9th, 2011 | by Charlie0
Absence Makes the Sex Get Hotter….Tips for Long-Distance Relationships
1. Phone Sex
An oldie but a goodie, phone sex is a great way to experience sexual pleasure with your lover without having them even touch you. While a lot of couples find phone sex strange and awkward, enough time without the one you’re lusting after will drive you to try anything, and with a glass of wine in hand, some sex music to get you in the mood and a healthy dose of self-love, phone sex can actually be very hot. The key is to get turned on before you make the call, so you don’t feel as awkward initiating it. The wonderful world of the Internet means that Skype or iChat now count in the phone sex stakes, so you can have an added visual thrill.
Send dirty photos, and lots of them. while it may seem that these can actually build sexual frustration rather than end it, a sexy posed photo can provide all the fuel you need for one very hot fantasy. It’s a way of sharing your body with a partner when he or she can’t be there to experience it.
3. Shared Fantasies
One of the best ways to feel close to your partner is to revisit an experience you’ve shared. Whether it is a particularly fond memory of a wild night of passion or a fantasy you’re both hoping to fulfil with each other, focusing on that fantasy while you’re apart (and while you’re relieving some tension) is a great way to stay connected.
4. Masturbate. A lot.
There’s no two ways about it–keeping the sexual frustration at bay when you’re waiting to see a lover again is best achieved by healthy and regular masturbation. Dust off that vibrator, settle in for a quiet night and unleash all of that tension. It’s good for your health.