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Published on March 18th, 2012 | by Charlie

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Introducing Women to Soft Bondage Games

Many women become skeptical when the words “bondage,” “foreplay” and “sex” are used in the same sentence.  Women, have no fear!  Guys who want to take part in sexual bondage games are not serial killers and descendants of the masked man in Texas Chainsaw Massacre.  They are simply men who are looking to spice things up in the bedroom.

 

Having yourself touched and teased while wearing handcuffs and other bondage gear is a treat of the most erotic nature.  The feeling of helplessness that this gear brings out is intensely sexual.  Also, the sex that comes after the foreplay is like nothing you’ve ever experienced before in the bedroom.

Start Out Slow

 

Like anything else, you shouldn’t rush into anything.  Don’t feel the need to bar yourself with metal chains and wear a straitjacket.  Start out with some handcuffs and then advance the bondage theme by working a tether set into the mix.  What is a tether set?  Basically, it’s a set of bands that don’t allow for full range of motion.

 

You’re probably wondering, “Why don’t I want to have full range of motion during sex?”  This is a common concern among many women.  Here’s why you don’t always need your flexibility during sex: being bonded creates a sense of helplessness.  Helplessness is hot.  Think of some of your dirty fantasies.  In many cases, you find yourself helpless in these fantasies.  These sexual fantasies can be realized in a safe and fun way with bondage toys.

 

After experiencing bondage with handcuffs and other beginner toys, there are bigger and better things: whips, rope cuffs, belts, masks and leather gear.  These will really add some spice to your sex life!

 

Adding Leather to the Mix

 

By this point, you’re beginning to appreciate sex while tied up and teasingly tormented.  Just when you though these games couldn’t get any better, they do.  Everything that goes along with bondage games – red-blooded stares, punchy thrusts and deep moans – gets a whole lot better when leather becomes a part of them.

 

Leather is downright sexy – especially black leather.  Leather suits and gear will get you excited in a more profound way.  Whether the leather takes the form of a mask, bodysuit, or gloves, it’s sure to make all of your sexual endeavors fierier than ever.

 

And, on a final note…

 

Switch Roles with Him!

 

Have your fun with him like he had his fun with you. It’s your time to be the punisher.  Get him scared, whip him a little and prove to him that pain and pleasure are equals.  Do things to him that will make him hail you as a sexual goddess.  While he’s bonded, make him your prisoner.  Tell him to lick you here and touch you there.  You’re in control now!

 

This all goes to say, the act of being bonded isn’t for one partner and not the other.  Switching between prisoner and tamer keeps bondage games interesting.  Who will hold the whip and wear the mask tonight?

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