Published on July 26th, 2011 | by Charlie0
What to do when the sex becomes boring
So, The Sex has Become Predictable…
One of the most common issues experienced by people in long term relationships is that the sex can start to become somewhat repetitive. This is not necessarily a reflection on either partner, or a sign that the passion has gone out of your relationship. Rather, it’s just something that happens when you become very comfortable with each other.
The Road Most Taken…
We liken it to finding the quickest route to drive to the beach. When you first start to make the trip out to the beach, you’re hyper-aware of everything you’re passing, all the scenery that whizzes by. As time goes on, you start exploring shortcuts, quicker ways to make the journey. This is great too, as it adds some variety, and you’re always happy when you arrive at the beautiful beach. As more time passes, however, you find a shortcut that gets you there the fastest, with the least amount of traffic. You begin to take this shortcut every time because you know it’s a sure thing, and eventually, you never even think of driving to the beach any other way because you’re so programmed into taking the most direct route.
The same is true for getting your partner to orgasm. Once we establish a formula that works, we tend to fall back on it a lot. Luckily, the solution is easy—try a different route! (or a different root, if you get our meaning…) Sex doesn’t have to be predictable, and all it takes to spice things part is an effort on both parts to surprise the other. Trust us, a few different turns and you’ll find that a whole new path opens up!
Apart from trying a few surprises, you can also work a few tricks into your routine that weren’t there before. Sex toys such as vibrators , handcuffs, blindfolds and cock rings are all elements that add a touch of the risque to your sex life, and trust us, sometimes a little battery power is all you need to turn ‘ho-hum’ into ‘OH, YUM!’