Published on March 31st, 2011 | by Charlie0
Sex Clubs–Are You Game?
Couple’s Night Out
If you and your partner have decided that you’d like to explore the wilder side of sex, it’s as easy as finding a sex club and checking it out. It’s a good idea to discuss personal boundaries with each other before you go so that there’s no confusion or discomfort between either of you when it comes to making decisions. You might decide that the first outing to a sex club will be entirely voyeuristic, so you can both get a feel for what it is like.
Generally, the people who frequent sex clubs are warm, welcoming and happy to explain the way things go. Any prior ideas about a predatory environment will quickly dissipate. As is the case with most sub-cultures, swingers and people who enjoy group sex are often a non-judgemental bunch who are only too happy to help out new members.
If sex with another couple is what you’re into, there are several ways you can make this happen. The easiest way is to show up to a swinger’s club or swinger’s party and check out the local talent to see who you’re into.
Another way is to meet like-minded individuals in an online setting first, and then agree to meet them in a club if all parties are game. It’s important that at all stages of the situation everyone is comfortable and happy with the way things are going. Swinging is meant to be fun and sexy, and if at any time someone stops having fun, it’s time for the party to end.
Sometimes, a trip to a sex club can result in some group fun for you and your partner, some public sex (many women like to go and simply play with a vibrator while observing and being observed) or just a good old dance in a place with a sexy vibe. Whatever your comfort level, if you are respectful of other patrons, your visit to a sex club will be eye-opening and exciting.