Sex Life confident-flirting

Published on December 14th, 2011 | by Charlie


How to Let Her Know You’re Interested

Letting someone special know how you really feel about them can be a little daunting, in fact it can be downright scary. The key is, to be subtle, so that if you get the hint that the feelings maybe mutual, it’s time to ask her out on a date. But before you get out the champagne and lavish her with gifts and sex toys, there are a few little key things you should do, to put yourself out there, to see if she’s interested too:

Show Interest In Her Interests

When you see her, make an effort to talk about things you know she likes. For instance, if she has a dog, talk about a funny dog picture you saw on the Internet and thought she would like. Ask her about work and what she’s been doing lately. Try to find something that you can ask her about next time you see her. For example, you bumped into her after work on her way to visit her grandma for her birthday. Next time you see her ask, did your grandma have a nice birthday?

All the Signs

Try to gauge if she has the same feelings that you do. For instance, if she tends to walk on the other side of the road when she sees you coming, that’s not a good sign. But if she lingers when you talk, and laughs at things you say even when she’s disagreeing, that a very, very good sign. Pick up on how she reacts when you touch her arm or when you lean towards her a little.

Taking the Plunge

So you’ve weighed up all the options and it’s only a matter of time before this dream boat sails, without you. It’s time to act and let her know how you feel. So how do you let her know you like her?

  • Be up front and honest- ask her out for coffee or a casual drink and see where it leads.
  • If you’ve been flirting with each other for a while, a dinner date at a restaurant might be more appropriate.

Whenever possible, ask her out in person. This shows how much you really do like her. Avoid facebook messaging and texting. If you can’t get a chance to see her face to face, call her.

REMEMBER: Don’t let your libido do the talking

Let’s face it. She’s hot and you can help feeling attracted to her. But you need to keep this to yourself at first. You also need to show her that you’re interested not only in her looks, but who she is as a person. Eg. When having a conversation remember, her eyes are up there. While she may be sexually attracted to you also, you don’t want to let on that she could have you in a heart beat. If you really like her, you’ll want to leave the talk about kama sutra and vibrators until you’ve at least had a few weeks worth of dates and have been intimate with her. Being too forward will just scare her off.

Telling someone how you feel about them is never easy. But if you are prepared and have a real hunch that the feelings are mutual, then why not go for it? After all, you never want to wind up thinking, ‘what if.’

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